it’s a love story | clare & james

While I haven’t posted one for a while, last year saw Love Stories from The Dawes, The Jacksons and our story!

I’m going to kick off the 2012 season with the story about James’ marriage proposal to his gorgeous Clare.

James is a work buddy and a fellow Project Manager. When we’re not stealing each other’s engineers for projects, we’re talking about the copious movies and TV shows we watch, our similar views on ethics and strategizing a survival plan for when the Zombie Apocalypse arises!


(swoon-worthy)Words by James.

The Marriage Proposal

Clare and I worked various hours every day of the week except Monday, which we usually had as a day off together. The Monday coming up was of particular significance because it represented the two year anniversary of our first date. In the weeks leading up to this day I was secretly very busy preparing for an anniversary to remember, and on the Saturday night finally told Clare that she would need to be ready for an evening out and an overnight stay on Sunday night, for our anniversary on Monday.

A Silver Cab arrived to pick her up at 6:30pm on Sunday and brought her to the Blackett Hotel in Sydney, where I met her in the foyer. I quickly ran her bag up to the room while she waited for me downstairs. We walked across Darling Harbour for our booking at Zaaffran, an excellent Indian restaurant with a fine dining atmosphere and service, and on the way discovered a British lolly shop. Clare had been away from England for a couple of years by now so we picked up a few of her favourites and continued on to the restaurant.

Zaaffran is the sort of restaurant where all the tablecloths and napkins are a crisp white, the silverware is polished to a high shine, the wait-staff are all dressed in black and the a la carte menu is the finest selection of Indian dishes. The food was amazing. We had nearly finished enjoying a wonderful meal when it occurred to me that Clare might be upset if she was expecting something else to happen in the restaurant, when in fact I was planning her surprise for the next day. I didn’t want to give anything away so I said, ‘By the way, we’ll also be going somewhere for breakfast tomorrow morning. Our anniversary isn’t just this visit to a restaurant tonight.’

This turned out to be the right thing to say, as she smiled and said she had been a little sad that the night was almost over. Now she knew there was more but she didn’t really know what else to expect.

Being July, the night became chilly so we caught a taxi back to the hotel. The room I booked was a New York loft-style apartment, with a lounge and kitchen, and an upstairs mezzanine bedroom and bathroom. When we reached the top of the stairs Clare smiled in delight as she saw the bedroom ceiling covered with helium-filled balloons in forest green, burgundy and gold, all with matching ribbons hanging down. There were so many you couldn’t see the ceiling. (It had taken me two hours with a helium gas bottle to fill that many balloons and tie the ribbons during my afternoon visit to the hotel room!)

I filled the bath with warm water, essential oils and wild flowers I had picked from around where we lived, poured the chilled wine and brought out the chocolates. The rest of the night was wonderful but I will fast-forward my story to the next morning!

We checked out of the hotel and left our bag with reception, then set off with a small backpack on my shoulder. Pancakes On The Rocks was a fun and delicious way to start the day so we took our time over breakfast just eating and chatting.

Afterwards we walked around the shops at The Rocks for a little while before heading to the other side of Circular Quay. There is a set of stone steps in between a club and a restaurant on the eastern side, which we climbed then crossed over Macquarie St to a large grassed area that looks over the Opera House. I chose a spot under a huge tree that afforded us a view of the Sydney Harbour Bridge as well, and spread out the picnic blanket. The sun was shining, the sky was blue, the day was warm and we had one of the best views in Sydney.

Now, back when we were in England together we bought a game of Travel Scrabble to play on the flight back to Australia. It is a game we both enjoy and have played many times. On this day, the second anniversary of our first date, I took the Travel Scrabble out of the backpack, handed it to Clare and said, ‘Crack this open while I get the drinks ready. We’ll have a game.’

While I was getting out the chilled bottle of Veuve Clicquot, two champagne flutes and a secret little box, Clare opened the game. She frowned when she saw some magnetic letter tiles already in place then her expression changed to surprise and delight after she read the words ‘Clare will you marry me’ written in Scrabble tiles. She looked up and saw me on my knees with a ring box containing a 1-carat solitaire diamond engagement ring in my hands. I said ‘I want my whole life with you. Will you marry me?’ and with tears in her eyes she said ‘Yes!’

I put the ring on her finger, kissed her and poured the champagne. While we were still grinning like a couple of crazy kids in love, Clare called her family in Adelaide to share the news. They told her that they already knew because I had called yesterday to ask permission to marry Clare. She thought the whole thing was wonderful and it is certainly a set of memories I will always treasure.


Published by thisismelly

Mel @thisismelly lives a life of adventure, gets lost in farmer’s markets, regularly indulges in movies, loves to whip up gourmet meals in the kitchen, swears that one day she will learn to speak French properly, adores candles and fresh flowers, married her high school sweetheart, visited 19 countries and counting, fears an apocalyptic rage-virus, regularly spoils her cavoodle Harley, loves walking along the harbour, is decorated with ink, muddles her right & left, seasonally switches between blonde and brunette, has soul-mates, favours painted nails & dangly earrings, always orders the 'plateau de fromages', is obsessed with British or Scandinavian crime fiction, detests creepy-crawlies & people who take too long to order coffee, gives terrible directions, makes up crazy dances for her devilishly handsome husband, believes in good, would always be dressed in Saint Laurent, Gucci & Chloe if she could, adores Tex-Mex & Japanese, loves the smell of rain & evening jasmine, may be addicted to Instagram&Pinterest, is always on the hunt for a really good macchiato, is James Taylor’s biggest fan, gets rowdy with tequila, dreams every night, takes pickles, jalapeños & dried fruit for movie snacks, would hate a world without French champagne, adores Pantone 1765, almost always wishes she was lying on the sand in the sun, is an inconsistent Paleo convert and although she is a hopeless Francophile she will forever be smitten with Sydney.

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